notes to people growing into themselves [8]
may you find what you need ❤
With everything we do, having the conversation is often enough to open the door and the work is really just to let yourself see what walks through it. Does that make sense? The idea is that we are adding more light to a room. As the room brightens, what you can do within it and how you move around it changes. More light, more choices. After you see things, you can’t unsee them.
Luckily, as humans, we are wired to do the best we can with the info that we have. When we don’t have enough info about what’s possible or what can exist for us, we make different choices than when we do. Subconscious filters can block some of the light, which is why we’ll tease them out with activities as needed. In the light, the ‘right thing’ becomes obvious, natural, and deliciously compelling.
In the habitbook galaxy, we never force, push, or struggle. We open to possibilities and allow ourselves to explore them. It’s this positioning that gives us access to new ways of being, living, and doing… as if by magic :)
I’d like to put this word on your radar, too: inevitable. Know that what you’re creating and bringing to fruition is inevitable. It’s only a matter of time.
Babe, Breathe. As best you can, pretend that dialogue isn’t yours and get curious. Just listen. Watch. Note. When things are stirred up, like they currently are, it can become easy to fall into and swirl with this cyclone of mental activity. To identify with the thoughts that you’re having. It’s ok to let them blow on by ❤ .
Here’s our newest focus wave:
Continue living richly. Meaning, See from rich eyes. Think with a rich mind. Hear with rich ears. Allowing for abundance in real life can be a little uncomfortable if you remain attached to old stories of identity or the world.
As best you can, keep respectfully setting down ideas you might have about how or who you are, and what it’s like to live in thrive mode. If you didn’t have to deal with things or make due anymore, what would you do? If you had unlimited resources, how might you live out your passion? When you want to develop and nurture relationships with things, ideas, or people, how might you treat them? What would you want to know? How would you care for it? In opening your heart to your own capabilities and power, can you also find and feel trust in the process? Where do you or could you see how your living structures can evolve to support your commitments, values, and view of the world?
Everyone is on their own path and it’s hard to say at any given time what’s good or bad for someone, yah know? When we are under tension or stress, it’s a time of growth. If you remove all obstacles in front of a person, they become weak and lose their sense of confidence in their ability to face the world.
So, while it might be currently inconvenient for her, who knows, this could be the very thing she needed to prove something to herself or prepare for something else. The best you can do is stay in a relaxed state and care for yourself. It’s so great that you have the ability and desire to think about and feel for others, and I’m really happy you’re now also using those superpowers on yourself.
Sounds like a big win for you. Because you processed it authentically (felt it, sorted it, decided past it), the next time (if there is one) won’t have the same sting. It’s great to see the expectation bubbles burst because then it calibrates you to the ground again — what is really there and what it really is.
— which gives you the best decision-making experience AND a deeper sensation of being present because you aren’t busy keeping up an extraneous storyline. It sounds like what is real and on the ground is a partnership based on understanding and respect for each other as humans.
OMG, like you’re friends.
ANNNDD more.
How great he must feel to know that you want to see him as he is and not try to change him. & vice versa.
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